Isra Posted September 2, 2012 an odd way for sure! but degrading..na i disagree....there are many more women/men who degrade themselves in by doing loads of clubing and other stuff that is beneth the behaviour of a practising muslim/muslima Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaMpAgE Posted September 2, 2012 Isra;863297 wrote: an odd way for sure! but degrading..na i disagree....there are many more women/men who degrade themselves in by doing loads of clubing and other stuff that is beneth the behaviour of a practising muslim/muslima Yes their is, however we have a culture and tradition, if a female wants to get married she should go to her family if she can't find a suitable partner her, and not display her self on some website, begging for a husband. I think its just a decline in modesty. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isra Posted September 2, 2012 lol erm...what about the guys?! are they also declining in modesty...?! dude thats a double standard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaMpAgE Posted September 2, 2012 Isra;863302 wrote: lol erm...what about the guys?! are they also declining in modesty...?! dude thats a double standard. A guy who goes on these website is just plain sad, with the amount of girls available now days. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
burahadeer Posted September 2, 2012 very dangerous,cannibals in the midst.If you'r commited you find your match in more dignified way.People back to old ways in america..churches,high school sweets,neighbors,family,friend connections...and some 3rd worlds heading opposite direction not knowing stability & family best suited as is been. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isra Posted September 2, 2012 burahadeer!? are you recommending people find mates in churches!!!! ...what happened to SOL? lol I know have been gone for a minute..but yikes. Rampage heh - leave the poor guys alone - not all guys have that confidence with women. I am thinking most of folks on this site are introverts. that's my theory. lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
burahadeer Posted September 2, 2012 churches yes,talking of americans but you can frequent mosques if muslim...for many,doesn't matter what faith really. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted September 2, 2012 I wouldn't recommend it.But, for different people different things work ...just be cautious. Burahader reminds me of this non-muslim lady who said the best place to meet a guy is the church or the laundry place lol.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isra Posted September 2, 2012 ahhhhhhh.....o.k........do we have a healthy representation of somali - christians on the board now adays? lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isra Posted September 2, 2012 lol Aliyah, to be clear - I wasn't asking for advise....I am not sure I agree with this. Just sharing a curiosity and my thoughts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted September 2, 2012 I was referring to anyone who chooses to meet someone that way not you persay. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted September 2, 2012 hadda waxaaba la jooga xiligii geedka laga korayay dumarka, so i'm assuming the men on these sites live in cities with very small somali populations, or like others have already mentioned are introverts, lacking comm skills/confidence with women. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted September 2, 2012 Isra...what were you doing horta? Mase you are promoting singlemuslims.com? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isra Posted September 2, 2012 lol che its called social research. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isra Posted September 2, 2012 honest truth though a pakistani co-worker told me about the site and suprise suprise they were Somalis - well a shocker actual lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
