Janna Posted May 10, 2005 Question: What was the reason that you dumped your last boyfriend or girlfriend? Answer to my own question: My last boyfriend had to go because he was always complaining about everything. He complainted more then I did! He was acting like a totally girl. It was like having someone worse then me. So I couldn't bare it no longer. So I had to say Good-bye to the little sissy. What was your reason? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
- Femme - Posted May 10, 2005 [Edit]: Nevermind. I was gonna tell you something you probably already know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted May 10, 2005 Sigh God give me strength. Phoenix, perhaps you should change ur signature. Ur not exactly living up to it. :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moth_To_A_Flame Posted May 10, 2005 I broke up with my last boyfriend in the summer of 2002 when I was about to move to another city for uni. He was also about to leave for the US for 6 months. I couldn't face the idea of a long distance relationship so I ended it. Having said that, I've been with my current boyfriend for 2 years and we're in different cities since he left uni... so I guess ironically I'm still having a kind of long distance thang! Trust me girls, it's great when you meet after a couple of weeks of having not seen each other! (I'll stop, i think I'm waffling!) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janna Posted May 10, 2005 Phantasma What are you on about? Actually I dont want to know. Waste of time! Moth_To_A_Flame You should have stayed with your other boyfriend because in the end you did end up having a long distance relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Legend of Zu Posted May 10, 2005 LoL Pink....ehm..ehm..discussin ppl..does that ring a bell!!! ....aaaaah....now u understand..don't U?? Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Good-Credit Posted May 10, 2005 Well actually GF # 1 broke-up with me after she found out that I have GF # 2 which consequently led to me and GF # 2 breaking up as well. good thing is they both dont know there is GF # 3,4 and an occasional (a weekend hit) GF # 5 who all have no way of knowing about each other.. sorry ladies, that's how we do business. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ADNAAN Posted May 10, 2005 I just wanted to ask pink and for that matter all the girls who approve of having boy-friends some relevant questions. Obviously for someone who claims to be a good muslim, the whole idea of having a boy-friend contradicts with their religion. Could a good muslim pray and at the same time have a boy friend? do these two commitments go hand in hand? or perhaps there is a compromise in one's Iman? What ever ur answers might be I think it’s a very shallow thing to do? P.S And it’s very irritating coming back in here and not finding wat u posted a minute ago (obviously without breaking any rules) :mad: ............... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacpher Posted May 10, 2005 There's a Somali saying, "Ma anigaa waalan mise Cadan baa laga heesayaa" Rag & dumar Soomaaliyeed oo leh boy friend amd girl friend!! Is this a joke? I hope so. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mafia Posted May 10, 2005 There's a Somali saying, "Ma anigaa waalan mise Cadan baa laga heesayaa" Rag & dumar Soomaaliyeed oo leh boy friend amd girl friend!! Is this a joke? I hope so. Ducaqabe, I'm equally perplexed. "Noloshaada oo dheeraataa, geel dhalayna way ku tustaa" ayay inagaga dhigeen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
najma82 Posted May 10, 2005 Adnan, ducaale and hardvard mafia, why are you guys acting like you guys don't know what is going on with the somalis....don't you know that most somalis, date before they marry each other,and I don't mean the way the western do getting physical and all...but u know the talking and all, what do you guys call that....I guess these gurls are talking about that....i don't know what my point is but what I am trying to say is that when somebody uses oh this is my bf, it is understood differently than when somebody says in somali waan qofkan/qoftan isla soconay...with me i don't see no difference, they're both wrong, but we somalis have two faces sometimes. Anyway, may Allah give us hidaayah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacpher Posted May 10, 2005 Najma, good point. I agree with you that some Somalis might use the word girl/boy friend differently. It confuses me personally because I don't know where they are going with it. Do you think your future wife/husband might feel confortable if you label him/her as GF/BF? I wouldn't want to use those words even if there's someone in my life because I don't want someone to think I am in sin. Not that I care but it's not good to use words that can mean different. There're plenty of ways to say it. GF/BF most of the time would mean two people doing things married people do including sharing same bed, kissing, hugging, having babies together, publicly open and taking care of each other. If they're ok with all these, why not just go one more step and take the title husband & wife. Is this what Somalis mean when they say my GF/BF. I don't know but I hope not. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janna Posted May 11, 2005 Can you guys people take this to the Islamic section. Thanks! And finish off your discussion there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faarax-Bond Posted May 11, 2005 Why Did You Dump........... The tobic is misleading, i was wondering if you wanted to know why i took a dump. to answer your q,i never dumped her,she dumped me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
