Jewel Posted April 3, 2003 What is the one thing about the opposite sex you would change? Personally, I would change men's natural laziness (sorry for the generalization). They expect the world from the wife/partner, yet are not able to reciprocate fully. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samantha Posted April 3, 2003 i agree with you, i think men have become sooooo lazy. in my view they wait for women to instigate everything-reciprocy does not exist in a mans world im sorry to say. Men nowadays are so laid back, effortless as if we the women owe them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
N.O.R.F Posted April 3, 2003 here we go again, male bashing day! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted April 3, 2003 Jewel....The one thing i wanna change in the opposite sex would be to find way to stop their desire to change us(males) . Everything else is ok with me.... lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyWalker Posted April 3, 2003 yo girls, yo want be chating here if it wasnt male, yo should listen JamesBrown's song "its man world" kabish. but i tell you what i would change for yo,NOTHING allah give you the beauty(well maybe some ofyou)lol, as long as you can please your man in respecful matter than Mars and Venas should come together and become Horn of Africa damn that will be the day. ps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haaruun Posted April 3, 2003 This would of have been a good topic to discuss if it's title wouldn't been so immature/stupid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HONEY-D Posted April 3, 2003 Why would u wanna change sum1 if u dont like they way they r then dont let them in ur life but if on the other hand u decided to take them in knowing he/she couldnt live up to ur expectations and expect him/her to change according to the rules u have set for them u'll be dissapointed. :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewel Posted April 4, 2003 As usual...little boys thinking that this kind of topic is male bashing/immature. Haruun,if the title was that immature (obviously u have no sense of humour) why did u reply? as a "mature" person, u should be "above" this type of topic. For the rest that shared their insight, thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
runawayvirgin Posted April 4, 2003 Fashion! Fashion! Fashion! God! I can not stand a guy the doesn't care of his appearance..I don't care where how bought it, how much it cost as long as it make sense! Shoes that's the first thing I look @ before I even see their face! I really love a guy who wears "unusual" shoes..ymmmy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyMo Posted April 4, 2003 The way men stare when they see you like they'd neva seen another female before! I'd change the way guys just assume ur single and when u tell them u aint they claim ur a liar. The way men say u think ur important coz u dont let them finish the sick chat-up lines. The way old guys try to chat up little girls in school uniform! The way the slowly move closer and closer to u at a wedding until they're almost steppin on ur shoes without askin for a dance! More or less the lack of respect our brothers have for us fine somali ladies! Hey I'm sorry! I didnt mean to hate but u kno wat they say once u pop u cant stop! (this only applies to some not all!) I still love my Somali brothers to bits and pieces coz I've realised they wont eva change. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Senora Posted April 4, 2003 What is the one thing about the opposite sex you would change? Thats a really hard question to answer because they're so many different types of men around. I wouldn't change anything simply because if I'm not happy with ONE(or a few) guys, then I'm sure there is at least one other guy that will satisfy me, and my needs! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suad Posted April 9, 2003 Salaam everyone! There are many things I would change if I could change a man, but then I am afraid I may say, "your not the man I married or fell in love with." In any case the difference is wat makes the attraction to go on. If Somali men are lazzy, it is us as a mother, sister, and wife to change them by teaching them to be independent. It is time to stop always asking the "wat ifs?" There are many other problems to chang or be concerned with>..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
