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Sista's Too Smart To Marry?

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kk. u single?

lol (jk)

 

On the serious note family value and marriege

played big role in our tradition as society of

collectivism instead of the wests individualism.

 

Namer one thing that was wrong with the ways we

were raised?

In a society were everyone played roles and

collisions hardly happen as often as these days

everyone knew their lanes(collision= counterpoise

for divorce).

 

Don't give me that "who needs men".When you know

what your answer will be.

There is one way to win this argument,

lets Compromise and comprehend with one another.

You are the back bone for men,we can go far enough

but the force to carry on is with you sista's.

So lets cut the crap and Opt-Out for a blessed home.

 

Pujah the ocean is sure big but you'll

drown alone,with your heritages sis'.

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Cara.   

Trevor, it was not collectivism but patriarchy. Of course you would feel nostalgic for it since men had it so much better. Exercise some common sense. Not all women yearn to be your vertebrae.

 

Kool_Kat, most married women I know seem to feel threatened by single women. I don't really understand completely but I have some ideas ;)

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CARA, You want some Common sense my sista?

Really,?

Is it not true that women in general are in fact %90 Emotion and %10 in logic?

And vice verse in men?

First off,that itself should demonstrate how common sense should really be looked at.

Vertebrae, Why not? It takes a smart woman to make great man>..

 

patriarch? I am bit old school, Sometimes best things are learned from history.

 

Is this a way of testing the waters?if it is wear you life jackets.

 

 

Ps.I won't even get to the religious part.

Not in the mood to make another Ayan Hirsi come out.

so lets skip that for another time.

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Kool_Kat   

Clever, yes I am married...Seven year anniversary is approaching soon...

 

Cara, some married women might be threatened by single women cuz they have self-esteem issues...And believe me I've seen a few of them...

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Ibtisam   

:rolleyes: This topic has suddenly become :rolleyes:

 

I think marriage is worth trying at least once,
in the very least you can acquire those
supernatural
powers of knowing what some single women want
'deep down inside'
.

HAHA classic.

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Naden   

The topic would have probably been fine but seems like Clever-Trevor very cleverly hid the vomit in his original post. It's come out a little later in 90%/10% proportions.

 

You see, a few female posters may have differing opinions with the poster, and before you know it, they are defensive and resistant to history's teachings. And miraculously, Ayan Hirsi is in the topic :D

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Kool_Kat   

Ayan Hirsi, aaaahhhh, our fav sistah eh...

 

Clever, thnx...Nothing I say will make anyone change their mind about marriage...All I know is that once women reach certain age, believe me (even if they have 20 different degrees) that's all they think about...Why didn't I get married; Why are men this and that; what is wrong with me; Why me, all my girls are married; yada yada yada...They just become bitter...They might not admitted to anyone, but they do...I've seen enough of them in this life time...

 

I know 'Calafaka' alaahaya...But I am just saying...

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Ibtisam   

Lool @ Ayan Hirsi. I did not even notice that been said! hehe. lol.

 

for some people marriage is their biggest achievement

you can say that again :cool:

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Blessed   

Aye, Naden. I was also thinking that Trev. has to come back and explain things.

 

Originally posted by Kool_Kat:

I really love how some single women put on this 'I don't care if I ever get married' face...Deep down inside that's what they all want...

Cara:

Kool_Kat, most married women I know seem to feel threatened by single women. I don't really understand completely but I have some ideas

Sisters, my beautiful sisters, my intelligent sisters... Can we dsagree without resorting to this? Please? smile.gif

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