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Queen Arawello

Types of Somali Women and Men

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B   

Some truth in this analysis, but its generalises too much and relies on cliches and stereotypes!

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-Lily-   

Why are they all so negative? What does it say about you that you cannot find anything positive about your people?

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Damiin macalinkiisiyo isagii, ha is dacweeyeene

Ninba dawgu leeyahay kolkii, dooda aan u dhawro

Ardaygii da' loo yeedhiyee, diminta miim saaray

Kol hadduu tacliin doonayayoo, deel xafidi waayey

Garta haddaan la daahayn isaga, saw danbigu ma aha

 

 

Bal intaas ruugsada!

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NinBrown   

hadey gawso laheen see bey u ruugsadaan ina adeer.

 

majority of people I know dont fit into any of your categories. Say no more.

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BOB   

Originally posted by Queen Arawello:

3.
The Faraax Type
Good with the ladies.

I would rather be a Faarax than all those girlie, mommy's boys you've mentioned above because Faarax is an intelligent fool who can come up with this.

 

 

'Dream of me' she said as she hung up the phone. 'Dream ONLY of me my love and me alone' and later that night when his body hit the bed, visions of her incomparable beauty danced in his head. His first dream of her was after their first ever meeting where she hypnotized his lonely heart. he dreamed of them dancing with the night under the watchful eyes of the full moon and millions of smiling stars, playing hide and seek with the day while the blue sky witnessed their joy and the passing by clouds shared and celebrated their joy. The beauty of her face reflected in his mesmerized eyes, never before had he felt so happy and never before had he felt so alive. His next dream was in Paradise, it looked like a place he'd been to before, a place similar to the sorrounding natural beauty of his beloved Kismayo that he grew up in. There they drank her favourite tea known by the locals as Warikow and lived a life of ease. The never seen before beauty of her amazing and sexy body reflected in the sun. It was then that he knew in his smitten heart that she was the ONLY Xaliimo for him. His last dream was the best of all three, it was the vision of the one thing he hoped someday soon would be. The warmth of her silkey and smooth body next to him reflected in candle light. He longed, hoped and prayed for it to be like this each and every night til the end. He rose from his sweet dream in the middle of the night. Stretching out his arms and rubbing the sleep from his eyes. And as he moved slowly from his tiny bed, he stopped and noticed her head on his chicken-like chest.

 

 

Peace, Love & Unity.

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Originally posted by -Lily-:

Why are they all so negative? What does it say about you that you cannot find anything positive about your people?

Good point. This was just an observation. No need to get your knickers in a twist. :D

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Originally posted by Queen Arawello:

 

Men

 

1.
The relgious Type
- has ambitious of dying a martyr, but is so recovered from the battle fields. Indulgences in local mosque talks; though often questioning the validity of the words of the sheikh, compares ideas with friends of similar type. Has visited extremist website at least once. Has taken part in demonstrations against groups seeking to attack Muslims. Rather educated, possibly an engineering/ science graduate. Has a linear way of thinking. Has very high principles.

 

2.
The Educated Type
- 'Mr I Am All That' but is living in delusion of nothingness, like his female counterpart, is a practising self-hater. Very Somali in nature, has all the tendencies but is too busy condemning 'his people'. Very removed from Somali society in general. Thinks dating a white chick is the equivalent of moving up the social hierarchy. Very empty inside, very judgemental, very ignorant but usually considered successful by the society in which he lives in.

 

3.
The Faraax Type
The most despised of the men. Reminds all people of what they ‘should be’, but didn’t not become. Commands respect in the community due to eloquence of Somali. Has the potential to succeed through his tough attitude but is lazy not by choice but due to lack of opportunites. Regularly chew khat. Good with the ladies. In some cases, still awaiting citizenship.

^

 

Araweelo,

 

It isn't usually as black and white as you portray here. I believe there are plenty of guys who fall in the gray area between these differing stereotypes of Somali male-hood that you have overlooked. This is why you ought to create a 4th category that somewhat straddles all the other 3.

 

There are many Somali brothers who are well versed in the tenets of their religion and practice it diligently, and are somewhat well "educated" in earthly forms of knowledge too. And they also generally have a very good grasp of their Somali culture and identity.

 

So there you go... who says you sisters can't have the best of 3 worlds with regards to Somali brothers, huh? smile.gif

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Queen Arawello;179765 wrote:
Women

 

1.
The Religious Type
- too busy chasing reverts, going to Islamic lectures circuits, has fundamental issues with the religion but too busy pretending to be good. works very hard to learn about Islam. Has abnormally high number of non-Somali friends. usually from Indians sub-continent or Arab female friends. Suppresses all forms of desires. Very judgemental.

examples include: Aaliyah

 

Queen Arawello;179765 wrote:
Women

 

2.
The Educated Type
- too busy celebrating her own greatest but is very insecure deep down. Never shows weakness, willing to try different experiences but is not out of conviction but appeasing 'others' - usually work colleague or school friends. Thinks other Somali men are inferior to her but knows she will end up marrying one of them. lol:D

examples include: 5 somalicentric, Faheema, Chubacka......

 

Queen Arawello;179765 wrote:
Women

 

3.
Xalimo Type
- goes on paltalk, has limited gasps of English, doesn’t work, and claims benefits. Waiting to get married. Enjoys watching weddings videos and comments on the dress sense of other people.

examples include: KoolKat, Blessed, Malika

 

Queen Arawello;179765 wrote:
Men

 

Men

 

1.
The relgious Type
- has ambitious of dying a martyr, but is so recovered from the battle fields. Indulgences in local mosque talks; though often questioning the validity of the words of the sheikh, compares ideas with friends of similar type. Has visited extremist website at least once. Has taken part in demonstrations against groups seeking to attack Muslims. Rather educated, possibly an engineering/ science graduate. Has a linear way of thinking. Has very high principles.

examples include: Jacfar, Abu Salman, Maadeey

 

Queen Arawello;179765 wrote:
Men

 

2.
The Educated Type
- 'Mr I Am All That' but is living in delusion of nothingness, like his female counterpart, is a practising self-hater. Very Somali in nature, has all the tendencies but is too busy condemning 'his people'. Very removed from Somali society in general. Thinks dating a white chick is the equivalent of moving up the social hierarchy. Very empty inside, very judgemental, very ignorant but usually considered successful by the society in which he lives in.

examples include: NG, AT&T, NORF, Apo, Wadani, Che and Ramasade

 

Queen Arawello;179765 wrote:
Men

 

3.
The Faraax Type
The most despised of the men. Reminds all people of what they ‘should be’, but didn’t not become. Commands respect in the community due to eloquence of Somali. Has the potential to succeed through his tough attitude but is lazy not by choice but due to lack of opportunites. Regularly chew khat. Good with the ladies. In some cases, still awaiting citizenship.

examples include: XX, Nuune, JB, Oba, Alpha

 

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL@Queen A..... extraordinarily talented script of MAXIMUS POWERS...R.I.P

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nuune   

I am glad we are in the same category, at least we share something maaha, this type makes sense than the other types, do you agree even though we are despised, good job Araweelo asset.php?fid=14&uid=3017&d=1313069411

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