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Aaliyyah

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Cashada iyo first attraction leads to the rest unless you wanna arranged marriage but I digress,

 

Back to my point, there's sane love and insane love. The sane love allows to weigh your options and help you do what's in your best interest.

 

The insane love goes like this:

 

She:hooyo aabo ninkaan baa rabaa inaa guursado. Waa nin Muslin ah (this argument is first one you will pull out of the hat first).

 

Parents: maxuu yahey mana isku hubtaa (experience shows parents only see the guy for the first time when the two decide to get married)

 

She: waan jeclahey.

 

Parents:That's all good and everything laakin maxaad kataqaantaa ninkaan.

 

She: waa nin fiican waana jeclahey.

 

Parents: Bal waayahe arintaa haku dagdagin. Ninku reer maleeyahey.

 

She: Reer? (she never met his family either)

 

Parent: haa hadeey aabey iyo hooyo soo malaha ninku

 

She: Haa laakiin inaga fasaxiinaa duunayaa.

 

Parents: baltaa hanoo danbeysee asaga iyo reerkiisa keen.

 

Parents: (it finally comes out) aawe yarkii isla sucod jiirteen. Maxuu ahaa magaciisa Guuled Warfaa.

 

She: Waan kala tagney.

 

Parents: Oo wiilal kale Soomaali soo majiraan.

 

She: Ninkaan baa rabaa

 

Parent: Garanayee laakin qofaan isku dhaqan iyo luuqad baa fiicnaa lahaa.

 

She: Kan baa doonayaa

 

Parent: Waayahey bal ka fiirso horta

 

She: Maxaad iigu diideysiin

 

Parent: Kuuma diideynee laakin ha dagdagin.

 

(shid deteriorates from here onwards)

 

Subxaano calls mom

 

Subxaano: Naa heedhey maxaad gabdhaada arooskeyda nooga qarisey

 

Mom: (astounded) maxaad tiri

 

Subxaano: dee shaleey Masaajidka baa lagu nikaaxiye la,yiri. Waacana xaflad yarbaa laqabanaayaa la yiri.

 

uncomfortable silence and nobody hears from the kid.

 

So what kind love your friend fit into?

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nuune   

Ciraaqi yuu ka yahay wiilka, reer Tikriit, mise reer Umm Qasr, soo kala caddee, then I can add my few sunuud in the qandi

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SeeKer   

Che, should it matter what love it is?

 

Marriage is sustained by something more than love and will only be long lasting if both parties realize that. Love might help you get through those rough patches but other than that marriage shouldn't be based on such a fickle emotion :D

 

No wonder our divorce rates are on the increase :cool:

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Aaliyyah   

^lol@ maxa nogu so sheegi weydey..I don't believe thats religiously acceptable.

 

anyhooow I would think shes mature and educated and wouldnt do such thing..qof caqli leh oo mature waxaas kuma dhoco...

 

seeker I agree with you. What does love has to do with anything...

 

salaam

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Thats a question she should've sought answers to long, long ago like from "hello" on. Marriage is very, very difficult relationship to maintain and nurture. The person you marry is not his own island; he comes with lots of baggage. So if your friend understands him, loves him, and is confident they can last. Then, nothing else matters. But if she has doubts about the cultural differences that might come out later on, then I'd say leave it alone because they will come out and it will be harder.

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If she is 34 years and above, she can go ahead and marry the Iraqi. If she is young lady tell her to wait little bit longer, I am sure prince Somali will come. :D

 

Raali iga ahaada 34 jirkoow. :D

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Seeker....The love thing should be used as bait to lure the fish but beyond, reason should kick in.

 

Aaliyah..What is religiously not acceptable?

 

Duceysane..Balaayo but interesting rule nonetheless.

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SeeKer   

Che, spoken like a true 'man' lol ;)

 

Ducaysane, 34 expired miyaa? I wonder what you think of cougars :D

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Aaliyyah   

Che when I said its not religiously acceptable, I was referring to having a marriage without the parents' consent...

 

As for ur other point, I don't believe in arrange marriage all I said was no one needs to fall for sweet talking and equate it to love. Real love only comes after marriage.

 

C & H well put.

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Blessed   

Safa,

Growing up in the same country would give them a common culture to fall back on. I persoally think that marriage is above these considertions. It's about really wanting to be together, understanding each other and being compatible personality wise, everything else is just trimmings...

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