Salaam
Dear Rahima
I once read that the only thing that can change someone's destiny or character is dua, so even if u came across a no good brother with some prayer he might change, don't give up on that dream husband, there are alot of decent brothers around it just takes time to find them
I luckily do not fall into the catogory you decribed Nur but i hope you don't mind me participating in ur discussion
RAMADAN KARIIM