sMiLeY

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  1. hmmmmmm well i think that it's possibe to be married and have a friend from the opposite sex..........but i'm sure there will be some difficulties .......i.e your husbnad/wife might get jealouse if u spend more time with your friend............i think the best solution would be to try to make your partner and your friend friends ...........i mean involve your spouse in your activities with your friend..........that way everyone is happy smile.gif


  2. Well ......u can't talk about love till u feel it...... i used to say that i would never go out of my way for a man....... i would never scrifies anything for a man.......but hey i guess things are different once u love........

     

    I always said that i would choose someone who loves me than someone who i love.........cuz i can learn to love but i can't force someone to love me .........BUT WOULDN'T be better if u can love and be loved at the same time?.


  3. well well well.......AGE...it's usually scarey for women but......i see some men scared hahha......u know what.....getting older is nothing what matters is what u did for your aqeyraah and dunyah.....i'm 2 months away from my 20th birthday.....my own mother can't believe that i'm that old......she says how i was born yesterday and i'm a big girl now.......well life goes on and times passes us soo quickly .....the smart ones are the ones who take advantage of it .......Happy birth to everyone whose birthday juss passed or coming....... smile.gif


  4. daymmmmmm what a stupid lady....i didn't even bother to finish reading.....incest kulahaa......where is she getting these information.....probably her imagination.......what i don't understand is .....why is she blaming whatever happens on islam......and why every somali women who tries to be famous.....starts with the story that her dad forced her to marry someone she didn't want..... u hear the same story all over again......

     

    illahi ha hadeyoo


  5. I tell my mom to take my lil brothers to Somalia everyday .....they're so westernized plus they can't speak Somali :( ....but she says it aint safe enough....i don't blame her. Anyways i myself would love to go back...maybe in few years ..... i need to learn more about my dhaqaan and go to baadiyo .....have some CAD iyo CAANO :D


  6. Learning is my life

    Love is what i feel

    light is what i need

    London is where my best friends live

    lattory is what i wish

    Language is what i communicate with

    LACIIB is what i avoid

    lucky is what i'm

    losing is my fear

    log out is what i'm going to do now


  7. i read about amina......what i'm still confused about is did she commite adultry while being married or was she single..........

     

    well if she's married and she committed adultry then she deserves to be stoned to death cuz that's the sharicaa laws ......but if she's single then she deserved to be treated as a single who committed zina.

     

    if we ever have a government in Somali they should follow the islamic laws ......cuz allah knows the best for its creation ......and if he says that we stone who ever committes zina while being married then we stone them........and if he says we cut the hand of theives then we do as he says.......

     

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    should deserve stoning in today's world"

    today, yesterday, tomorrow.........the laws will remain the same .....we're not gonna change it according to our life styles


  8. what u said is true......soo many of us lost our culture......u see kids that can't speak somali......daym it has been only about 12-13 years since the war started and we're starting to melt in where ever we are....imagine us in 50 years ......if someone from my generation is losing his/her culture imainge their grand children....i wonder if there will be such ppl called somalis in 50 or 100 years from now.

     

    I always pray that Somalia gets better but then look at what's happening there is a war between tribes and then there is a war within each tribe......and wars don't end ........u hear a warlord died .....u might think things will get better but guess what probably his son or brother will replace him....

     

    If u only see kids that come from Somalia.....u would feel soo sad......they can't do simple math like 2*2 ......they can't read or write somali or any other language.....not only that .....they don't behave like children.....no respect for elders.......I feel sorry for them seeing all the voilence it must had a big impact on their life and behavior.

     

    I try to think of solutions for the problem......but i can't think of any......i personally gave up on somalia.......ALL i do is pray .......and hope ALLAH will help us and our country