LadyLuck

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  1. well..what you did was kinda foolish in the first place judging the girl before you even got a chance to know what kinda girl she was..So i dont think you got any right beating the dude up..or trying to get the girl back.

     

    Think of this as a lesson next time don’t prejudge someone :(


  2. Thanks for the tips. I never thought about breast cancer, until I saw a show on T.V. where this young girl got one of her breast removed. I think alot of ppl associate breast cancer with an older age group but it could happen to any girl/women anytime in her life. So know ur bodies ladies... smile.gif


  3. Thanks for your replies everyone…and the welcome smile.gif

     

    On personal note, I would never consider being a surrogate mother because I would feel to attached to the child that was growing inside of me. With the second question I have mixed feeling about it on one hand I feel that she does have some sort of claim even though it isn’t her child due to the simple fact that she gave birth to the child and carried/took care of the child while she was pregnant. On the other hand if she was paid then I don’t believe she has any right. I wouldn’t use a surrogate mother if I wasn’t able to have any children, because I wouldn’t feel comfortable with another women having my baby and experiencing that connection a mother has with her child when its in her womb.

     

    I didn’t know that surrogate mothers were forbidden under Islamic law, thanks for letting me know that. However I have other question I wanted to ask yall. If a couple tries having a baby the natural way god intend but doesn’t work because of the women/men age, the women body is unable to handle birth, or there is something wrong with the egg or sperm. What are their options other then adoption., that isn’t haram ? Also is it haram to use fertility pills, and in-vitro etc to get pregnant?

     

    I started thinking about this topic when one of my aunts couldn’t have a another child after her first born, which she is very grateful for having.

     

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  4. Hey yall...Hows everyone doing...This is my first topic n hopefully this topic hasnt been discuss before. I wanted to know what are your opinions about this subject. So here are a few questions I wanted to ask yall...

     

    1. Would you consider being a surrogate mother for a couple?

    2. Do you think that surrogate mothers has any claim to the child?

    3. Would you ever use a surrogate mother if you werent able to have a baby...and other methods didnt work?

     

    P.S. Here is short explanation about what a surrogate mother is ( if you didnt know)is a woman who carries a child for a couple or single person with the intention of giving that child up once its born...

     

    Thanks for ur inputs ahead of time... smile.gif